To get anything you must first know what it is that you want.It’s like shooting an arrow. You can shoot without a target and sure enough you will hit something. Maybe that’s good enough for you.But…Maybe you realize your own value and you are passionate about your own happiness in which case finding, meeting and begin a relationship with the perfect woman for you is the only option. If so, good! In this article I am going to tell you how you can get the girl of your dreamsTo get a specific thing we must know what it looks like in detail. And, the more we know about it the easier and more likely we will be to get it.To get success in any endeavor requires time effort and dedication. To be able to invest as much time as you’ll need to, you must at least be enjoying what you’re doing. That is a huge part of the processYes, I am describing a process that can be applied by anyone to get a certain result. Just like achieving anything in life, there is a process to go through to get that resultWhat you will learn here is the process to go through to find, meet and begin a relationship with the girl of your dreamsDo you have a girl of your dreams or are you open to whatever and whoever comes your way?A lot of people thing that they should just leave it and let it happen naturally. They believe that the girl of their dreams is just going to fall into their laps.This is like going for your drivers license examination expecting to pass without ever investing time effort or money into learning how to drive. It’s foolish and not something that anyone would doWe know that to pass a test we must study for it.Likewise, to get the girl of your dreams and begin a relationship with her you must study for itHere is an overview of some of the aspects of the process to getting the girl of your dreams1. You need to know what kind of person you would like to be in a relationship with. Feel free to dream about her. Think of all the different qualities in all the best women you’ve met or been with and put them all into one and that could be the girl of your dreams.List some of the characteristics she would have. Describe how smart she would be. Educated or not necessarily. Is she a party girl, a sporty girl, a gentle and kind girl, a strong willed girl? Whatever you want in your dream girl you should make a note of it and this is an extremely important part of the process!2. You’ve described this wonderful girl you would like to be with. Now, lets have a look at you. Do you think that in the current state you are in now, you would be likely to appear attractive to this girl of your dreams? Seriously! Do you think she would be likely to enjoy your company and want to be with you?I’m guessing the answer, if you are honest with yourself is no. There are some things you wish you could be like. Maybe you would like to be in shape, have a nicer apartment, have better friends, be able to interact with women better, be more socially savy.These are great things to want to develop and they’ll enrich your life all together. So get on with it. Peruse them!The truth is that “Like attracts like.” You attract who you are. If you are in great shape, your sociable and you meet and interact with beautiful women you are bound to find the girl of your dreams and to be in a long term relationship with her.To get into shape you can join a gym or begin an exercise program of one sort or the other.To become more sociable, meet more women and be able to interact with them in such a way that they find you interesting and attractive would require that a secret manual or specialized training.Your social skills are the most important aspect to meeting the girl of your dreams and getting her interested in you. In fact, you may have already come across a number of women you really liked the look of and would have loved to have the opportunity to date them but you just didn’t know how to go about it.You saw her. She was beautiful and you just wanted so desperately to talk with her. But you just had no idea what to say.You stood there. Looking at her. Hoping something was magically going to happen and then she walked away never to be seen againYou cannot afford to let this happen ever again!If you don’t do anything to learn how to meet women like you would learn how to pass a drivers test you are going to fail to attract the girl of your dreams. You will be single and dateless for the rest of your life until you decide to lower your standards and go with whatever you can get!Don’t do it!You have so much potential and if you just take the time to learn a few techniques you’ll be out meeting beautiful women as soon as you likeThe next time you see the girl of your dreams you’ll be able to meet her and get attracted to you.When you invite her to exchange numbers with you she will be really excited and happy about it. She will enthusiastically offer her number to you and ask for yours as well. She will be that eager to meet up with you againSo here’s what you need to do.
Get yourself into a relaxed and easy going state of mind and body. Stand up straight with your head up. Breath in deeply though your nose and slowly exhale through your mouth. RELAX
She is only a person and nothing more. You have spoken well with many women in your life so this is going to be easy and it’s going to go well for you.
Walk up to her. Don’t get to close. Make sure you keep a comfortable distance between yourself and the girl you are approaching.
In a relaxed and calm tone of voice say to her, “Hi there, excuse me for approaching you like this but I just noticed you from over there and thought you had an interesting fashion sense and I just wanted to say hi.”
You should have said this in a friendly and cheerful way so that your words stimulate her. If your voice is bad you’ll just irritate her. There’s nothing worse than someone who mumbles or doesn’t speak loudly enough
Watch how she responds to you and follow on with
Well, I’m… and stick out your hand straight to her. She will be delighted to meet you because you are doing this without hesitation. It’s important not to hesitate!
Then say to her
Do you always dress so creatively or were you on your way to some kind of special event. She will be happy about this. Every girl likes to be appreciated
When you next come across a girl you would like to meet you have some things to say. Practice saying this greeting and before you know it you’ll have perfected it.The next thing you’ll want to learn is how to get phone numbers and email addresses which I explain in my highly informative articles and videos. Yes, I have even recorded approaching women demonstrations where I approach women and use my techniques to get women interested and attracted.Have a nice day and remember to put this into practice.Good LuckYour friend, coach, role model and mentorRichard Average